15 HABITS OF SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS
A successful relationship does not bloom out in the limelight without adequate grooming.
You develop relationships with your friends, nuclear family, extended family, colleagues at work and neighbors
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Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity! It is like the precious ointment upon the head, that ran down upon the beard, even Aaron's beard: that went down to the skirts of his garments; As the dew of Hermon, and as the dew that descended upon the mountains of Zion: for there the LORD commanded the blessing, even life for evermore (Ps. 133: 1-3)
The English dictionary defines a habit as “an established custom”. You can either create positive habits or negative habits which in turn become an established custom after consistent practice.
I have carefully searched out 15 success habits to help you develop a beautiful and solid relationship anywhere and everywhere.
Read through till the end and activate each step in your relationship.
Don’t compare your relationship to that of another - You are unique in your own way so accept that and transform your relationship in a unique manner.
Make time for others - While trying to build a successful relationship habit, it is important that you make time for others always
Be an active listener - Giving a listening ear shows that you care and you are interested in their situation. Listen to understand before talking.
Respect other people's opinions but don’t bind your life by it - When you respect other people's opinions, you show that you value them.
Give more than you want to get - You will have what you give to others. If you want others to smile, encourage, value, and cheer you up then do the same to them.
Be a problem solver and not a complainer - Use every opportunity to bring a solution out of a problem.
Stay positive - Always see the light in every challenge, encourage others and speak positivity regardless of the situation.
To thyself, be true: One important factor when seeking deeper relationships is the tendency to be a people pleaser. Be honest in your actions and remain true to your values.
Take responsibility - Don't frizzle out for fear but take responsibility as this would build others’ trust in you more
Know when to say “NO” - Set boundaries and stick to them. Know when to say the word “NO”
Keep an open mind - An open mind is essential for building good relationships. It allows you to see other people's points of view, understand their perspectives, and be more tolerant of their opinions and beliefs.
Respect other people’s time - Be time conscious. It shows that you value other people’s time and in return, they’ll value yours too.
Invest in community - Don't be a lone ranger, spend quality time with your colleagues, your friends and your family.
Appreciate others more - Be thankful for every little thing and it will encourage others to go an extra mile for you.
Listen to Feedback - Request feedback regularly to improve yourself. If you want to go a step further, ask for a feed-forward.
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